Building A Healthy View of Prayer

I have admittedly, my whole life, had a low view of prayer. I admittedly, to this day, have a low view of prayer. It has started to become evident about how important this facet is to one's spiritual endeavor in Christ, and it is also evident when it is lacking in one's life. I have started to feel at times as though I am just talking to the wall. It is frustrating to do something that you know is Biblical, but yet you are deriving nothing from the endeavor. It is times like this that I see the difference between living religiously and living in the Spirit.

I sit down to a meal and pray in a generic fashion. It's then as though I checked off that bullet. I pray corporately for the approval of men, and that is one of the things mentioned literally by Christ as something to not do several times (cf. Mat 6:7). (My friend Jason Wing wrote a neat article on seeking the approval of men through corporate prayer.) I admittedly rarely pray with the intentional thought of, "how can I glorify my Father during this time?"

When I present the Biblical basis of missions, I often gloss over prayer in the five ways you can implement a world Christian lifestyle into your life (I means "missions minded" not "worldly minded"). There is one passage that strikes the cord for me as to how God views prayer and our role in doing it. Jesus exemplifies both His love and compassion and how prayer is involved in the outpouring of those characteristics. If this doesn't convict you on your prayer life, I don't know what will!

Jesus was going through all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues and proclaiming the gospel of the kingdom, and healing every kind of disease and every kind of sickness. Seeing the people, He felt compassion for them, because they were distressed and dispirited like sheep without a shepherd. Then He said to His disciples, "The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. "Therefore beseech the Lord of the harvest to send out workers into His harvest."
Matthew 9:35-38

I came upon my lower view of prayer a lot from my study both in God's immutability and sovereignty. Christians who hold to a reformed understanding of predestination see the doctrine as being all inclusive. That means, that predestination doesn't simply refer to election but also everything around seeing the election manifest itself (metaphysical determinism). When I debated the Open Theists who thought strongly that prayer could in fact change God's mind by contorting passages such as Moses' intercession for Israel in Exodus 32, I became more and more disheartened at the idea that prayer doesn't change God's mind.

Many Christians have struggled with the question, "if God's unchanging and everything is set, why should I bother to ask Him for anything." And as I myself think about it I can empathize more and more with this question. I often tell people who bring up this question that praying is simply the act of obedience and something we have the privilege to do. I try and convey the thought that if you're worried about God changing for you then you have your desires in the wrong place. Jesus even understood this idea. Despite His oncoming suffering, He still asked His Father to relieve Him of the suffering.

Then Jesus came with them to a place called Gethsemane, and said to His disciples, "Sit here while I go over there and pray." And He took with Him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and began to be grieved and distressed. Then He said to them, "My soul is deeply grieved, to the point of death; remain here and keep watch with Me." And He went a little beyond them, and fell on His face and prayed, saying, "My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; yet not as I will, but as You will."
Matthew 26:36-39

This is a powerful passage, because we see Jesus' human nature act out of true fear and distress. But what is interesting is that even in His fear He did not sin (1 Pet 1:21-22). He understood that His request would not be met, and He exemplified His understanding of His necessary submission to accomplish redemption when He said, "...yet not as I will, but as you will." He reinforces this by saying shortly after the first prayer:

He went away again a second time and prayed, saying, "My Father, if this cannot pass away unless I drink it, Your will be done."
Matthew 26:42

I think I, and all of us, can learn much from Jesus' example in this passage. I need to remember that prayer at first should be about our complete submission to God. It is in this understanding He grants understanding of what must take place for His Name (Mat 6:9; cf. Luk 11:12). It is time for me to build a healthy view of prayer. I don't know much, but I do know (on yes, experiential evidence) that when we turn to Him and delight in His Name and purpose—He provides comfort and rest.

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8 total comments, leave your comment.
  1. Prayer is a difficult subject to think about theologically. The Bible seems to me to teach that God has planned everything in this world before time and yet it also teaches that God responds to our prayers. (In other words, our prayers in some way are factored into His plan). I think that here Molinism comes in and fits these two ideas together nicely. Personally, my confidence in prayer and God's providence have been bolstered by the doctrine of middle knowledge.

  2. I appreciate your thoughts Daniel. I personally don't want to turn this into a debate on Middle Knowledge (although it'd be fun) so we'll let it be for now.

    There is definetly an aspect Biblically that God does respond to prayer. Then you get your mind wrapped around did He plan to rspond to the request and so on.

  3. Hey,

    Glad to see someone be open about this. I actually spoke with my pastor at length about it after sunday's service. PsP

  4. Simply the act of obedience and something we have the privilege to do

    Like Witnessing? ~.^

    Anyway, I think that prayer is one of the things that most draws me to God. I too have been in that place where it feels like my prayers aren't making it through the ceiling -- or worse that they're bouncing off and hitting me in the face.

    Then you get your mind wrapped around did He plan to rspond to the request

    Why does that require wrapping your mind around? It makes perfect sense to me. The closer you are to God, the more your will and his will align, slowly you'll start to pray for his desires as if they were your own. :) Likewise, God witholds our desires from us that are harmful, because he knows what is best for us.

    In fact, prayer is super-basic, take a look at this:

    Romans 8:26-27 In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. 27 And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will.

    I think that that verse is a tough one to let sink in. Because although we are praying from our own hearts, we are also praying -- through the Spirit -- from the heart of God. :)

    Likewise here:

    Jude 1:20 But you, dear friends, build yourselves up in your most holy faith and pray in the Holy Spirit.

    I've often seen those passages used to defend speaking in tounges. As a result, I think sometimes people refuse to touch on their intrinsic meaning because they're too busy focusing on whether or not a certain doctrinal quibble is right or wrong.

    To me, prayer is easy, because really it's just trusting God. When you want to be held accountable to someone for something -- you have to talk to them about it. In addition, God is glorified through answered prayer. If someone you knew was miraculously healed and you hadn't been praying for them -- yes, the hand of God was in it BUT, who recieves the Glory? If you can say to someone "I PRAYED for a miraculous healing and God healed them!" then the glory rests where it belongs.

    But this is just asking-for-things prayer. :) I like to pray in worship better. I've never prayed "I love you Jesus" and felt THAT hit the wall ;D

  5. Jessica Stoehr
    Dec 7th 2005

    Hey! Great Chris!! I don't know what I think about predestination yet, but wow, prayer is important no matter what you think!

  6. Well, now that I'm all leaning Calvinist because of your influence, I have discovered the same struggle in my life. Darn you. ;)

    Total depravity.

    Now friend me! I just got a xanga! What?

  7. Man, who is NOT interested in post-modern spirituality?
    And yes, I do like the emerging church. Or at least what I've experienced of it, which has helped me to grow enormously this semester.

  8. Yeah! Lord willing, I'll arrive the day after Christmas to spend a few days with my Grandparents, and then stay with the IT folks until January 4th. I'm looking forward to it. I'll at least see Dan, Erin, and Kristen--but hopefully others.
    What brought you there?

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